Thursday, 14 February 2013

Love.....As We Know It!

Love...the most BEAUTIFUL expression that Life has gifted us with !

I can never say I've not seen True Love.....I've experienced it,felt it and enjoyed it.I've seen love and affection the best in my mother's eyes,love in my father,love in my dear siblings and unconditional love in my freinds.

Love is something we feel everyday yet people keep complaining that they don't get loved , simply because,Love is an exquisite emotion which we never get tired of and we are always greedy for more.

As I returned back to my hostel today after class in a rickshaw,I noticed many glimpses of Love from our daily life.I saw LOVE in a mother who was carefully holding her child's hands as they crossed the road,I saw LOVE in a boy playing with his dog,I saw LOVE in a guy gifting a bouquet of flowers to the girl that blew his mind off,I saw LOVE in a brother who was advising his sister.....I saw LOVE all around me.I realised that all these little things happen everyday,but why did I suddenly start noticing things now?

It is probably because,now.at this moment,I value LOVE more than any other feeling.

As a matter of fact,we all tend to run behind people who never considered us special and in this race,we forget the people who really love us.A lesson I've learnt from my  few experiences in life,LOVE those people who LOVE YOU instead of loving people whom U LOVE.

Love is not any planned emotion,Love is not something you can control,It does not live on rules,It happens instantly sometimes even without your knowledge.

I've personally seen many love stories around me and I've wondered how does it even feel to be considered so special by someone?
I'm a lovey dovey person,I enjoy romantic movies,I like crying over beautiful love scenes,I believe in LOVE,I believe it happens someday in everyone's life.For me,Music is my favourite medium that expresses Love.Songs that make you dream,Songs that make you cry or even plain instrumental music that gets into your soul.Books are yet another beautiful medium to express Love.Some books totally bowl you over,makes you get lost in an entirely different world.

I've met many people in my life who exit suddenly without even a proper goodbye.I really feel sad when anyone does that.Love is an amazing feeling and it only becomes all the more beautiful when you express it.In Life,we come across many sets of people.Some people whom we keep so close to our heart and consider them really special,but later we realize we were nothing to them,which is very painful.I've been through a lot of that and I know how it feels.I failed a lot of times running after people that didn't feel the same way for me.I treated them like they were my everything but they just treated me like another someone they knew.My mom always tells me,never get too attached to anyone.Attachments lead to expectations and expectations lead to disaster.

I am a person who believes in the temporary existence of us on this planet.So....during this short period why hate,why run away,why stop talking?
Why not love,care,be there forever?
Doesn't that sound more beautiful ?

We are not here to hate anyone or stop talking to people,we are here to love each other,to be there for everyone as long as we can.

Life is a short journey which we,through our actions,can make it memorable.Love is  not just about finding the  right partner,Love is about finding the best in you and being able to spread it to others with loads of compassion.
To love someone is beautiful but to be loved is even more special.

As I continue dreaming about all the awesome things associated with LOVE,I'd like to share here one of my all time favourite love quote.

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.” 
― Bob Marley

Simply LOVE and be Happy :)